So how do we get rid of "Whiteness?" I believe that focusing on that terminology only perpetuates the divisions, the "Whiteness" itself. We should instead try to focus on our commonality, which is the real truth.
https://qcp.medium.com/the-myth-of-white-privilege-6645ee9924f7
That said, I'm not good at taking my own advice. As an attorney, I have to speak in terms of - and prove in court - racial classifications, in order to establish a legal case for discrimination. But my work is only a stopgap measure to ameliorate the problem. The real solution will come from those who know how to bring us together.